Cleaning out the Clutter!

Not the kind of clutter you are thinking. I'm talking about mental clutter, thoughts and ideas that are no longer useful. There comes a time in our lives when it's time to rid our minds of old thoughts---negative ideas that are no longer working. Put new positive thoughts in our brain, easier said than done I know. I'm doing it working every day to change my thoughts so far it's working. I'm feeling stronger than ever before.
I'm also finding it necessary to rid myself of people who are not anything for me. People who call themselves my friends. When I pick up the phone to call them they aren't available when I really need some one, or they start talking about themselves and their issues. Okay fine I'm willing to listen but "HELLO" I called you for a reason.
My latest thing is "my so-called friends" asking me to do something on a weekend then no call and plans. What the hell and you say you are my friend. I guess after the 1st time I should have known better, 2nd time and I'm just plain silly to think it's EVER going to happen and the 3rd time well that's it 3 strikes and YOUR OUT! If you were a true friend you wouldn't ask me to do something then back out with no call. Oh wait when you do call all I hear are excuses of being too busy...well maybe you are just too busy for my friendship. I don't know but, I'm not a door mat please don't treat me as such. You could try to make it up to me but, that isn't necessary. In my opinion just be there like you said you would be in the first place. I've had enough negativity and disappointment in my life. It's time for me to move past that and be happy. I DESERVE IT!!!!!!!
Oh the post about friendship and the person I said I'd want her friendship back. Well, after careful consideration...no I wouldn't want her back as a friend. She wasn't a friend to begin with if she can walk out of my life, calling me names and being nasty to me with no explanation she wasn't a friend to begin with.
If you want to be in my life and be my friend great I am here with open arms. If not that's fine too. I wish you well and hope life treats you kind.
"The only people you need in your life are the ones that PROVE they need you theirs"